The couple, both of whom are devoted Christians, have even set up a website called FitnessSwingers.com which enables them to meet couples who, like them, are both religious and fans of
keeping fit.
But not everyone who asks to meet them is Christian and so the undecided and atheist are given a gentle lesson in faith along with a good time between the sheets.
'I don't think God would be mad at what we are doing,' smiles Mrs Parave, 44. 'At first I was conflicted but the more we looked at it the more it makes sense to us.
'Dean and I are both in agreement with this lifestyle, so we're not committing adultery. God put people on the earth to breed and enjoy each other - I feel God is always with me and he has put us here for a reason.'
The couple met on a dating website eight years ago, after Mrs Parave, who has three children from a former marriage, Brittany, 23, Daryl, 20, and 17-year-old Rose, decided to start meeting people again following the end of her relationship.
Mr Parave, a fitness instructor, had been an alcoholic and drug addict before finding Jesus following a
drink-drive arrest.
'For me every day used to involve a case of beer and a bottle of Jack Daniels,' he remembers. 'After my
fifth arrest for driving under the influence I begged God for help.
'I should have been looking at 10 years but the judge sentenced me to just 10 months in prison - for me
that was a sign.'
After he was released Mr Parave built a 40ft cross in his back yard and pledged to do the Lord's work for the rest of his life.
Despite their past difficulties, the pair quickly hit it off. But it was in bed that the real fireworks took place, with the 44-year-old admitting that her first husband wasn't quite as compatible.
'I've always been adventurous when it comes to sex,' she says, candidly.
'The sex between my first husband and I was miserable.
'I was undersexed before I met Dean but now we do it twice a day. It's incredible.'
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